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    How to Ask Your GP for an ADHD Referral (Script Included)

    ADHD 12 February 2026
    By the Find Care Compare editorial teamPublished 12 February 2026

    What Your GP Is Assessing

    When you ask your GP about ADHD, they are not diagnosing you. GPs do not diagnose ADHD - that is done by a specialist. What your GP is assessing is whether a referral for a specialist assessment is clinically appropriate.

    To make this decision, your GP will consider:

    • Your symptoms - do they align with recognised ADHD presentations (inattentive, hyperactive-impulsive, or combined)?
    • Duration - have symptoms been present since childhood (before age 12)?
    • Impact - are symptoms significantly affecting your daily life, work, relationships, or mental health?
    • Alternative explanations - could symptoms be better explained by another condition (e.g., anxiety, depression, thyroid issues)?

    Your GP is not looking for certainty. They are looking for sufficient evidence that a specialist assessment is warranted.

    How to Prepare for Your Appointment

    Preparation makes a significant difference. GPs have limited appointment time - typically 10 to 15 minutes - so being organised helps you communicate your concerns clearly.

    Before your appointment:

    1.Write down your symptoms - be specific. Instead of "I can't focus," say "I regularly miss deadlines at work because I cannot sustain attention on tasks for more than 10 minutes"
    2.Note when symptoms started - ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition, so symptoms must have been present in childhood. Think about primary school, secondary school, and early adulthood
    3.Consider using the ASRS - the Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale is a validated screening tool. Completing it before your appointment gives your GP a structured overview of your symptoms
    4.Gather supporting evidence - this can include school reports, university records, performance reviews, or statements from family members who knew you as a child
    5.Note the impact - write down how symptoms affect your work, relationships, finances, mental health, and daily functioning

    What to bring:

    • A written list of your symptoms and their impact
    • Completed ASRS screening form (optional but helpful)
    • Any school reports or childhood evidence you have
    • Notes on family history of ADHD (if applicable)
    • The name of your preferred Right to Choose provider (if using this route)

    Template Script: What to Say to Your GP

    Below is a template script you can adapt for your GP appointment. You do not need to read it word-for-word - use it as a framework.


    "I've been experiencing symptoms that I believe are consistent with ADHD, and I'd like to discuss a referral for a specialist assessment.
    I've had difficulties with [describe 2–3 key symptoms, e.g., sustained attention, organisation, impulsivity] for as long as I can remember. These difficulties were present during my school years and have continued into adulthood.
    They are currently affecting my [work/studies/relationships/daily life] significantly. For example, [give a specific example].
    I've completed the ASRS screening questionnaire, which suggests my symptoms are consistent with ADHD. [Hand over the form if you have one.]
    I'd like to request a referral for an ADHD assessment. I would also like to exercise my Right to Choose under Section 3a of the NHS Constitution and be referred to [provider name]. They are listed on the NHS e-Referral Service.
    I have their referral details here if that's helpful."

    This script covers the key points your GP needs to hear: symptoms, duration, impact, and your preferred referral route.

    What to Do If Your GP Refuses

    If your GP declines to refer you, do not panic. There are several steps you can take:

    1.Ask for their reasoning - understand why they believe a referral is not appropriate
    2.Request it in writing - ask them to document their refusal and the reasons in your medical record
    3.Provide additional evidence - if the GP feels there is insufficient evidence, offer to return with more documentation (ASRS scores, childhood evidence, family statements)
    4.Request a second opinion - ask to see another GP at the same practice
    5.Reference the NHS Constitution - politely remind them of your legal Right to Choose under Section 3a
    6.Contact your ICB - if the practice continues to refuse, you can raise the issue with your local Integrated Care Board
    7.Submit a formal complaint - as a last resort, use the practice's complaints procedure

    In most cases, a well-prepared appointment with clear evidence is sufficient to secure a referral.

    After the Referral

    Once your GP agrees to refer you:

    • Right to Choose: The GP sends your referral to your chosen provider via e-RS or email. Most providers will contact you within 2 to 4 weeks to arrange your assessment.
    • NHS pathway: Your referral joins the local NHS waiting list. Waiting times vary significantly by area.

    While waiting, you may want to read about what happens during an ADHD assessment so you know what to expect.

    Use Our Right to Choose Eligibility Checker

    Our free Right to Choose Eligibility Checker tells you in under 60 seconds whether you are eligible. It includes a downloadable GP referral script tailored to your situation.

    You can also compare ADHD providers and waiting times across England on Find Care Compare, and learn more about the legal framework in our guide: What is the Right to Choose?

    Frequently asked questions

    Check your Right to Choose eligibility

    Find out in under 60 seconds whether you may qualify for NHS Right to Choose. Includes a GP referral script to support your ADHD referral discussion.

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